ANY GOOD NEWS???

The dreaded question... 'Soooo Any Good News?' Now some of you are probably thinking errrm ok whats the problem has she finally lost the plot? And Im sure others who are married are thinking 'Ahaa I know what she is talking about'.
Before getting married the dreaded question was ...'Soooo are you considering anyone or getting married???' Im sure we have all been through that and if not then all I can say is your very lucky!
Anyways I recently got married 3 months ago and by the Grace and Mercy of God am very happy! I wrongly thought 'Yesssss now no more awkward questions' WRONG!!!!!!!
It seems that the new dreaded question post marriage is now 'Sooooo Any Good News?' This of course is quite commonly accompanied by a meaningful stare at your tummy and occasionally with a quick prod at the tummy to see if your concealing anything!

Family asking is cool they are looking forward to a new nephew/niece/granchild/cousin etc but I dont know its still slightly embarassing!
When close friends ask its also not too bad but personally Id prefer not to be asked and rather for people to wait to be told. The worst thing is though when people you dont really know come and ask... I work in a bookshop and now it seems that since getting married its licenced people friends, customers some who I know well some who I hardly know to openly come up to me and pose the dreaded question either that or im just getting fat lol so people cant help but wonder!
I could be wrong but Im sure thats its quite well known that when people are actually expecting a little bundle of joy they dont actually like to broadcast it for a good few months I think at least 2-3 months and when they are good and ready to let people know they will themselves offer the good news!
Prematurly asking puts them in a difficult situation as if they are expecting and they dont want to tell you yet they cant exactly lie and say no! But at the same time they dont want to tell you either so people plssssssssssssss have more consideration for your friends and random people you dont really know and dont ask rather wait to be told!
Now some of you are thinking 'okkkk shes lost the plot and is letting off steam' ... to that I say...'Phewww Yes I think I am letting of steam lol' and the final trigger for this was the other day in the bookshop when a customer who I hardly know at all bounced in and leant over the counter peering hard at my stomach with hand reached out and finger ready for a good old poke said ...'SOOOOOO any good news?' Now what I would have liked to have said was 'Errrrm nope not yet BUT if there was and I actually wanted you to know about it I think you would have known about it dont you think?' But that would be rude so instead I politely said 'no'.
I know people just want the best for you and are excited for you but pleaseeeee just be patient and wait to be told rather than ask!
Now for those of you who actually know me incase your wondering and want to ask but are now too scared to ask the answer truthfully and honestly is... 'No im not but please keep me in your prayers and if and when I am ill let you know myself when im good and ready but at this moment in time honestly nope there is no good news'!
Phew!!!! Im done! Any comments welcome!